someone fast forward.....

bleh bleh bleh


can time be any slower at work....

hurry up, so I can be off!!!!!

not again......

so yet again, i am faced with many questions. somedays i hate facebook, my therapist was right, what happened to the days where you didn't know what your ex was up too, their business was not in your face. It is my fault he is in my face because im too nice and too curious to delete his faceboook off my account. so it is my fault. He was done with me in that way so its easy for him to see my business, but for me not so much. I don't know if he has a gf, i dont know if he just as a friend thats a girl. I aint gonna lie, it still stings like a mutha fucka but at least im not crying about it. Im like get it over Jen, yes i said jen, its been almost like two years, well it will be in november. why can't you just say fuck him and say he lost a good thing when he had it? right just keep going on with that saying. Fuck him and his skinny ass big haired ugly self. shit like i have enough confusion in my life about feelings. FUCKING GET OVER HIS ASS RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!! im fucking tired of thinking about him and missing him and fucking worried about his dayam ugggglyy ugggly love life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
GET over him now...
so lord please let me forget him or at least forget the feelings,
i love you
thank you,
id appreciate greatly

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somedays I just want to get the hell out of here and start over. There is just some people in my life I can throw away. what good were they really being in my life?


fuck em.

Something I've noticed....

I can't look someone in the eye if I don't have lost any respect for them. I can't even look at their face or direction. As sad as it seems, there was a time where I couldn't look at myself in the mirror, I guess I knew I didn't have respect for myself at one point. Now I know what I want to be and what exactly I don't want to be. Realization hits me like a brick sometimes. I have come to realize, should have, would have are just spilled milk, you can't dwell on them. Things happened the way they did and that is it. PERIOD. I think I have lost faith in some things, but now know what I can believe in for myself. I can't let other people's actions deteriorate faith for myself. If I believe in myself and know what I can be and how things can be, then I will be alright. Change needs to happen and I need to let go....& its so hard when you want it so bad.

I dont know even know why im crying.....

Maybe the answer is not to get drunk...maybe the answer is not to hang out with one you expect to keep you warm on a lonely night. I am so tired of hurting, so tired of crying. I just want it to be done with. It doesn't help when you try to get over more than one problem or subject at the same time. I cried for an hour and a half straight, is that really necessary? are the reasons you are crying worth it? personally i dont think so. as of right now i stopped crying, but my eyes are puffy and i am angry, I am really tired of this shit. Somethings' got to give and something has to change, i only ask soon please..... my sanity is wearing thin.

question mark/drunk

so I sit here intoxicated and ponder on thoughts,
why can't I have what I want fall into my lap? even as bad as it would be for me, to the bone, I know what is best for me. But at times, it conflicts with what i really want? Maybe its just a sign from god to tell me that there are things better for me. Maybe I am just drunk, Maybe I am getting ahead of myself, Maybe I am too emotional. @times i just wish i wasn't so emo, I just wish I was who I portray, a funny girl with nothing to lose and who could care less, I am not that person, i care too much and i love too much. I dont know even know what to say, i cant explain how i feel, right now i feel lonely and can't say why. a good cry right now will be good....


tommorrow will be a good day.

pointless blog but it means something to me.

So theres always something...

I know I only blog when there are no other outlets to release my feelings, but I plan on blogging more often since I plan on either ceasing or decreasing my sessions with my therapist. I think my therapist was a great outlet for what I needed at the time. I obviously do not do what she tells me all the time, but none the less, it has been a great help. I only hope to blog about great things other than to vent about the same thing. This weekend was great even though it involved hanging out with the ex. The truth is that I really had a good time, and of course no doubt that I still have feelings for him, & at times I still desire him. I understand that we are broken up and we are cordial to each other and act like friends when we see each other but we can't be close like we used to be, at least not now. I can honestly say this weekend was just a great time and no tears were shed for him. I almost did shed a tear. Now a days, its about hanging out as a crew and I honestly say that I didn't want to be left out. I called in for work, partly because i didn't want to go due to being tired/hangover and thats the thing I didn't want to be left out of the fun I don't regret it, I almost cried tonight because my friends were planning all these trips that I can't be invited too because I am the ex-girlfriend and "fragile," as they may think. And I know it might not just be just guys going so that makes it worse. Its not their fault but I do feel "left out." and that has always been been a big deal for me. I have to let it go sometimes. I am aware of this. A couple more things I have to admit and let out before I go to bed. I have to admit that I still wonder if he is seeing someone and that bothers me, not to the point where i go crazy, just a bit annoyance. I guess i become paranoid. And another thing i really hate when i feel like I am being used, I take that back, not necessarily "used", maybe just feel like a back up, I feel like i deserve better. Somedays I believe that I deserve all the bad things I get but i know that's not true.....

step by step, day by day, I will have everything I want in life. I can feel it.