So theres always something...

I know I only blog when there are no other outlets to release my feelings, but I plan on blogging more often since I plan on either ceasing or decreasing my sessions with my therapist. I think my therapist was a great outlet for what I needed at the time. I obviously do not do what she tells me all the time, but none the less, it has been a great help. I only hope to blog about great things other than to vent about the same thing. This weekend was great even though it involved hanging out with the ex. The truth is that I really had a good time, and of course no doubt that I still have feelings for him, & at times I still desire him. I understand that we are broken up and we are cordial to each other and act like friends when we see each other but we can't be close like we used to be, at least not now. I can honestly say this weekend was just a great time and no tears were shed for him. I almost did shed a tear. Now a days, its about hanging out as a crew and I honestly say that I didn't want to be left out. I called in for work, partly because i didn't want to go due to being tired/hangover and thats the thing I didn't want to be left out of the fun I don't regret it, I almost cried tonight because my friends were planning all these trips that I can't be invited too because I am the ex-girlfriend and "fragile," as they may think. And I know it might not just be just guys going so that makes it worse. Its not their fault but I do feel "left out." and that has always been been a big deal for me. I have to let it go sometimes. I am aware of this. A couple more things I have to admit and let out before I go to bed. I have to admit that I still wonder if he is seeing someone and that bothers me, not to the point where i go crazy, just a bit annoyance. I guess i become paranoid. And another thing i really hate when i feel like I am being used, I take that back, not necessarily "used", maybe just feel like a back up, I feel like i deserve better. Somedays I believe that I deserve all the bad things I get but i know that's not true.....

step by step, day by day, I will have everything I want in life. I can feel it.