Life's a dessert & I am the sugar. (jeNINIpnay)
Tuesday, February 25, 2014
So they say "everything happens for a reason"
Sunday, July 28, 2013
& the question is....
Tuesday, May 21, 2013
Has anything changed since I ate that dreadful chicken fried steak?
Saturday, September 25, 2010
Chicken Fried Steak was a bad choice.....
On top of that uncomfortable feeling, is that stupid feeling that I want to get rid of. A friend said he met my ex's new girlfriend. Yes I know, everyone is meeting her. It was something I knew was going to happen, but holy shit it still bothers me. How come I couldn't just have had a boyfriend who didn't have the same fucking friends. I guess its natural to wonder, will they like her? will they welcome her? THESE WERE MY GOSH DARN FRIENDS first! I never want bad things to happen to people but shit sometimes I have to admit I do. I can't be selfish but goddamn man, I am just tired of being too nice.
Everything is racing out of me.
I hate that the last guy I was interested in, has a fucking girlfriend and won't contact me anymore (should be the best thing ever)
I hate that my ex is fucking here with his girlfriend (I feel as though he broke my heart and now he is invading my space with his new life, this was my fucking life)
I hate that the guy that i technically rebounded and transfered my feelings for comes to me for girl problems. I can predict everything about his relationships.
I hate that the guy who wanted to take me out on a date canceled after he saw my facebook and has not text me back for days.
I hate that i can't find a fucking guy. Should i just give up already?? FUCCCCK
am I not good enough or something????
or is it they aren't good enough for me????
Just want to find the answers
I almost got so bothered by my ex's girlfriend meeting everyone that I want to move way from them so I can start over. But I have to deal with it. These friends of mine are my family. I gotta deal with it. There are just some fucking days I DONT WANT TO HAVE TO DEAL WITH IT. why do some things gotta be so fucking hard?????????
The chicken fried steak and the rest of the bullshit leaves me with this heavy dense full feeling.
I can't wait to take a shit and dump the chicken fried stead and the bull shit into the toilet.
Lord, I need help.
Monday, September 20, 2010
Sara Bareilles - Gravity
This song means so much to me. I can say that it means two different things to me about two dffierent people. The first meaning is very literal and the words can describe some of my relationship with the one I call my best friend. I try to push him away and I can never seem to push him away completely. He belongs to someone else, well which is most of the time, but he still seems to wants me to want him. I become happy when he wants to hug me or in need for my presence. I just wish my feelings for him can just go away. He pulls me in like a drug. Im in desperate need for rehab.
As for the second meaning is for the EX, the one who belonged to me for so many years now belongs to someone else. The reason this song is also dedicated to him is because even though its been a couple years and I know he has a girlfriend, it still hurts and sometimes it feels as though I am not free from him completely. His presence pulls me in and keeps me wondering, thinking, and occasionally missing. I dont cry everyday, I don't disregard his happiness. He is a good guy. He deserves it. But I have realized that we can't ever be close ever again. We can't be friends. Life has been somewhat harder because we are both close to the same people. The Ex is here in town and he brought his new love here to meet our friends we once shared. I thought I had finished crying about him. Apparently not.
I need to just let go of both somehow,someway, or with someone. There has been too many signs to let me know that its time.
Sunday, August 29, 2010
Fix my papercuts
I am trapped.
I need someone or something to let me out.
Please.
I am not hurting as much as I was before, it seems.
But little by little, I still am.
Maybe that is worse.
Ive had that deep cut already when my heart was broken, now it feels like everyday or everyother day, I get papercuts.
Papercuts add up.
Tuesday, August 17, 2010
Theres always one day that leaves you with a sour taste in your mouth..
Not that anything major happened today or tonight. Just a reality slap in the face. I went to therapy today and released some things on my mind, but in turn it added more things on my mind. I know I am passive, and I can't seem to kick that problem. All this time I believed I had control of some things in my life but I really don't. Control with money and men are my biggest problem. All this time, I was led to believe that I had my money in control but its quite the opposite. To everyone I am registered nurse who makes a lot of money, but in turn I am a broke ass with no savings. I just want to give my friends that deserve it, everything they want & I can't. Some of them have really been good to me. It was a slap in the face that my car just decided to die on me at this moment in time and what can I do at this point? Just leave it because I can't afford to pay to fix it right now. Thinking of money gives me an ulcer. I am going be back on track after this trip to Portland. I need to make that serious change and really be cautious. For my future and sanity, I really need to change some habits.
As for men, seems like I never really have control over those situations. I can't control my feelings and I wish I could. For one, I always let them do whatever they want to do. I think of it as getting what I want, but in reality, its only short lived. They call, they text, they want to hang out, but on their own time. I don't really know if exactly Ive been trying, but still, at this time moment I have no power. For one, Ive had pent up feelings for someone that I wish I didn't. Its one of those disgusting can't stand to be around him but can't stand to be without him. Just wonder if he knows. And another one, the unattainable, the one I desire? of course is taken. Of course teases me and texts me from time to time to reminisce about that amazing time, and the possible repeat? Why must he torment me with that idea. Its cause I let him and like the fact that it does feel good to be wanted. But it is also puzzling that if that was so amazing why doesn't he want to be with me all the way? I know. Its because thats the only kind of amazing he knows, not the whole amazing me. As i know, I gave up the cookie too fast. Feels like I need a prince charming to take me away from these situations before I'll be strung along again.
I know it is me that put myself in these situations. So it is me who has to change! & for the better!
I feel better and now I relive my childhood and watch Teen Witch.
Maybe my wishes will come true like i thought it would when i watched it..hehe.....